27 March 2009

SERIES Finale

(Note: Everything I am about to say, has already been articulated by countless people. Nevertheless, I still feel the need to blog it out of my system!)

When the show, Jon and Kate Plus 8 first aired it was one of my favorites. I had remembered the Gosselin family from their other hour long specials on TLC (Surviving Sextuplets & Twins). I was so happy for Kate when she later got her much needed, and deserved tummy-tuck.

In the beginning there were so many things that I liked and respected about them. During the first season they seemed so normal and down-to-earth. Kate was able to keep their household clean and organized almost entirely on her own. She seemed slightly obsessive-compulsive, but with eight small kids under the age of five, who could blame her?

I loved how conscientious Kate was with their finances. In some of the first episodes they talked about how their kids had to wear hand-me-down clothes. Kate talked about how she spent 150$ a week on healthy groceries. For a family of 10, that's amazing!! They only bought organic food when they could afford it or it was on sale.

I was most impressed when they stopped using the strollers AND had all of the sextuplets potty trained by three years old (even the boys!). For me, potty training one unruly toddler seems like a daunting task, so to see her successfully potty train six was inspiring. Ben would even watch some of the episodes with me and was equally impressed.

However, as each season has progressed they have become less and less admirable. It has become abundantly obvious that their financial situation has changed drastically. They went from eating "organic whenever possible" to almost 100% organic (candy included). That didn't bother me. But it did get pretty annoying when they would both mention it during each episode; as if eating organic was a big deal and made them better parents. Just because a lollipop is organic doesn't mean it's healthy!

Then Jon went from working full-time...to part-time...to not working at all. All eight kids stopped wearing hand-me-downs and instead were seen wearing clothes from Gymboree. Even though it was obvious that they had more money, people kept on giving them hand-outs (hair transplants for Jon, gifts from viewers, etc..) Then there were all the vacations and trips (i.e. skiing in Utah, Disney World, Hawaii, North Carolina etc...). I understand that production was probably trying to make the show more interesting and most likely footed the bill for all trips filmed. But they have always come across with an attitude of entitlement. All of these factors contributed to my lack of interest. I stopped watching the show sometime over the summer. Ben actually boycotted the show because of how Kate treats Jon.

Needless to say, I didn't keep up on the most recent season. However, my mom was curious about the new house and was suckered into watching every episode. She made a habit of calling me every Tuesday morning to fill me in on all the ugly details. This only made me less interested. However, on Monday (March 23) TLC aired season 4 in it's entirety leading up to the season finale that evening. Having two small children under the age of two made it impossible to watch all of the episodes, but I did take notice of a few things that made me sick!

Kate's attitude was out of control! The way she was talking to Jon was appalling. The money has changed her in such a shocking way. I think my point can best be expressed in the following pictures...
Kate essentially went from this....

...to this...

...to THAT!

Her nails were perfectly manicured, skin tan (in Jan/Feb!), teeth bleached, hair, make up, clothes..everything just overdone! I could go on and on about her hair. The streaky dye job and a-symmetrical cut just aren't working for her! Does she know?? Obviously not!! But I digress...

There were so many things that I noticed that my mother did not. Like the Christian Dior sunglasses she wore in the puppy episode. It is blatantly obvious that her interest in clothing and maintaining her appearance has definitely changed. Doesn't she have 8 kids to take care of? Furthermore, she wouldn't have the TV show and all that money without her kids. Shouldn't all the money go to them??!

What I really want to know is: Why are people still watching this show??!! We're in the middle of a recession. People are losing their homes to bankruptcy and foreclosure everyday. Why would watching the Gosselins buy a mansion be interesting? The unemployment rates are at an all time high and continue to climb. Why would anyone want to watch these people get paid to go and hang out with their kids?? Most people are living paycheck to paycheck hoping they don't lose their jobs. Why would you want to watch this family go on free vacations? And since they have all this money, why are they still getting so many hand-outs??

In short, I don't understand why this show wasn't canceled months ago. I'm hoping that their season 4 finale becomes the series finale. With the way Kate is spending money, maybe someday Jon can go back to working as an IT analyst and she can go back to being a nurse;jobs where they were actually contributing to society.


25 March 2009

Some Things Don't Change...


Jocelyn, July '07 (3 months old)

Jocelyn, March '09 (23 months old)

Jocee has been sleeping like this since she was born! It brings a smile to my face every time! Even though she is a toddler now (and has approached that "terrible two's" stage sooner than we would have liked) we can still see our little baby in her.

15 March 2009

My Little Girl



In just a few short weeks Jocelyn will be two years old. The past two years have flown by. Sometimes I just wish she could stay little forever...or at least for just a little longer!

It was about this time last year that I realized her birthday was soon approaching and began to think a lot about the preceding months. Ben and I had also just barely discovered that we were going to have another baby. I found myself almost every night overcome with gratitude and awe. I wrote the following during one of those tear-filled nights...
All throughout this entire month I have been in disbelief that my little girl is going to be one year old. I've found myself, every night looking at the countless pictures of her first year; marveling at all the changing she has done. I am constantly wondering how I got to be so fortunate. She has brought more joy to my life than I could ever begin to put into words.

She has changed me more than any one person ever could. She has taught me what it is to be truly and completely selfless. She has altered my perspective on every aspect of everything. She has changed me in the very best of ways. and I am forever indebted to her for that.

Really, there aren't words adequate enough to convey how grateful I am for her. At almost 25 years old it seems like my personal, self-imposed list of things to accomplish is much longer than what I have already done. While this is most
likely true, she is my greatest accomplishment. Furthermore, nothing I could ever cross off that list would ever surpass becoming her mother.

I am also so grateful to be able to become a mother to someone else later this year. To get the opportunity to do this for a second time is amazing. And yes, it will be tiring, and time consuming, and expensive, but I am looking forward to ALL of it. I can't wait to meet this sweet little one, to hear their first cry, and to welcome him or her into our family.
So I find myself, one year later feeling similar emotions that seem so difficult to express. I feel so abundantly blessed to have such an incredible little girl in my life. Jocelyn has made life so much sweeter. She continues to amaze me every day!

10 March 2009

Daddy's Little Girl


Ever since Sophie was about 2 weeks old, Ben and I have both noticed how much she looks like her daddy. She is almost his total carbon copy (with the exception of her hands, feet, and eye color)! Her facial expressions, personality, and temperament are all so similar to Ben. She's a total Daddy's Girl, for sure!

Today while Ben was uploading photos onto Facebook, he found one that I took about 2 weeks ago. It looks eerily similar to a picture we have of him as a baby. Sophie has his exact smile! So adorable!

Sophie, Feb 2009 (3 months old)

Ben, April 1980 (about 8 months old)

04 March 2009

Tagged by Crystal!

Alphabet Tag
A. Attached or single? Attached

B. Best friend? My Benny
C. Cake or pie? Cake
D. Day of choice? Saturday and Sunday...but only if Ben is home!
E. Essential item? Diaper bag
F. Favorite color? Pink
G. Gummy bears or worms? Cinnamon bears, for sure!
H. Hometown? Bridgewater, Massachusetts
I. Indulgence? Dark chocolate
J. January or July? Definitely July
K. Kids? Jocelyn Michelle & Sophia Leigh

L. Life isn't complete without? My family
M. Marriage date? 21 May 2004

N. Number of brothers and sisters? 1 sister, 5 sister-in-laws & 5 brother-in-laws
O. Oranges or apples? usually apples
P. Phobias? Heights!!
Q. Quotes? "What we are is more important than what we have, or what is said of us."-Marvin J. Ashton
R. Reasons to smile? So many! Hmm... Spring is coming, a potential trip back east (and all that entails), Ben (most of the time ;)), all the cute things Jocce says and does, Sophie's coos & belly laughs...and the list goes on!
S. Season of choice? Spring, fall, summer...anything but winter! (unless it's in AZ, of course!)
T. Tag some peeps: Anyone who wants to!
U. Unknown fact about me? Nothing comes to mind. I'm pretty much an open book.
V. Vegetable? pretty much all, except for brussel sprouts
W. Worst habit? Eating junk food
X. X-ray or Ultrasound? prenatal ultrasound

Y. Your favorite food? Fresh seafood
Z. Zodiac sign? Gemini

02 March 2009

The Jumperoo!



Last week while Ben was busy tying flies and fishing the Green River, Miss Leigh was quite busy herself. Over the course of about 36 hours Sophie had a major growth spurt! All she wanted to do was sleep and nurse. So the time has come to pack up all her 0-3 mo outfits and bring out the size 2 diapers, 3-6 mo outfits, and the Jumperoo!

The Jumperoo is basically an exersaucer and johnny jump-up in one. Jocee LOVED it when she was a baby. It was her favorite thing, until she learned to crawl at 6 months. I was so sad when we finally put it away.

From what we can tell Sophie seems to really like it! She hasn't figured out the jumping part yet, but she's been loving all the little toys. I love watching her serious little face as she figures things out. It brings back so many fun memories, and we're so happy that Sophie will get to use it, too!


happy girl!



Jocee in the Jumperoo at 4 months old.